10.26.02 : 5:20 pm
i miss pepper a lot. even though he spent most of his time in the backyard (by choice), i can feel his absence continually. for the first time since we've lived in this house, i locked the backdoor at night. it just felt weird not having my big, barky bubba out there to protect me. i think that's the most eerie thing, actually - the quiet. all of the other dogs have always been fairly quiet. but not pepper. he would howl and bark and cause a ruckus all the time. and i miss that. it's too damn quiet around here. ... i had two new classes today. in each one i had a student ask me how many dogs i have. in both instances, i replied six. immediately after, i realized my error... but it's too awkward to say, ``no, actually i have five. my sixth one had to go to sleep last week.`` instead i just tried to casually say, ``i mean five.`` which made me feel like a jerk. i don't really know why... but it did. and i nearly lost my cool and clocked someone today when the following exchange took place: ``why the glum face?`` ``i was just thinking about pepper...`` ``i don't understand why this is effecting you so much, it's just a dog.`` grrrrrrrrrr. i'm so proud of myself for just walking away from that person. goodbye, and don't bother ever trying to talk to me again, thanks. *sigh* i know pepper had a good life. i know i'll never forget him. i know he'll continue to protect me. i know the ache will dull. i know it will take some time. any thoughts? (1)����������������
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